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loving people where they’re at

Hello, reader. How are you doing? I’ve been thinking about loving people where they’re at. Loving people where they’re at is my values. It reminds me of unconditional love. When I encounter any person, I’m encountering also their view of the world. I gravitate to unconventional views of reality. Queer, creative crazy people are my… Read More »

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I love my sacral fat pad

Hello, reader. How are you doing? I love my sacral fat pad, and no one can stop me. Why am I telling you this? I need to proclaim that I love my sacral fat pad because I tried to research this cool body part, and all I could find was plastic surgery websites and workout… Read More »

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studying Spanish

Hello, reader. How are you doing? Studying Spanish is grounding– so blissful. Sometimes I forget what grounds me, and then I remember. Feeling connected to a huge group of people is so comforting. Spanish is colonizer language, but widespread to the ones I need to speak with. Spanish is a place I can be myself… Read More »

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what dancing is for

Hey, reader.  How are you doing?  At an event watching local Indigenous people dance, they were burning copal.  I felt so happy, some things came together in my mind.  I connected dots, and I felt excited. It made me want to write a blog post and tell you what dancing is for. prayers Dancing is… Read More »

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tank brigade

Hello, reader.  How you doing?  I’m so busy, working hard to build a more loving world.  And I’m always fat, which is work in and of itself.  I’m dodging barrels of harm like Mario in Donkey Kong.  Disabled too!  It’s been years now I’ve known it’s my destiny to be in the tank brigade.  If… Read More »

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invited

Hello, reader.  How are you doing?  I’m glad to be asked anywhere.  I’m rarely invited to any gathering, to the point that being invited to a party or workshop is cause for celebration.  I consider it carefully. Recently I was reading an acquaintance’s social media post about being nonbinary, assigned female at birth, and invited… Read More »

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what I’m actually thinking

Hello, reader. How’s things? I was talking to a new friend yesterday.  Lately I’ve been meeting trans, queer, disabled, and crazy people I like.  I realized that in conversation, new folx who don’t know me yet are often wrong about what I’m actually thinking. They guess wrong because they don’t have much to go on. … Read More »

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fat people have as much worth as thin people

Hello, reader.  Would you like to dance?  Do you know that all bodies are valid bodies, fat is ok, and fat people have as much worth as thin people? Maybe you know those ideas theoretically, but I wonder if you know the ideas in your heart.  Do you respect fat people similarly to how you… Read More »

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fat transqueer disabled dance

Fat transqueer disabled dance is a guest post by Ming.  Photos by Ming! *** The dance happened on the same day as a national political protest occurred, Hands Off. We at the Fat TransQueer Disabled Ecstatic Dance were creating and celebrating the world that the protesters were dreaming for. Here is now. Why not? Before… Read More »

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what I need from a doctor

Hello, reader.  How are you doing?  Trying to be responsible, I’m seeking medical care and dental care.  I’m trying a new Nurse Practitioner after a bad experience with the last one.  Today I’m thinking about what I need from a doctor. I’ve had decades of medical trauma.  Previously I’d preferred to be shot, over going… Read More »