Hello, reader. How are you? I’m on a trip, not blogging much because my computer is half-broken. Soon new tech will arrive. Ming and I were talking about virtue signaling. Are you familiar with the concept? Virtue signalling is when you do or say things to make sure everyone knows you’re good. It can be… Read More »
Hello, reader. How are you doing today? I’m thinking about friendship stress after a valuable conversation I had with a housemate friend. how friendship feels How do you feel in friendship? Are your connections feeling supportive helpful real trustworthy safe enough Do you have what you need with other people? Are other people even worth… Read More »
Hello, reader. How are you doing? Are you fat like me? How do you feel about your body? My body is fat and beautiful. I made a video that I thought you might enjoy. Please share with anyone. I wrote and performed this pleasure testimony for a sermon my friends Nina and Ariel created for… Read More »
Hello, reader. How are you? I was thinking about relationship styles, love as a skill we can strengthen, how I default to love, and what stresses me out about people. What stresses you out about people? Little of what comes naturally to me is within the range of normal friendship. I was talking to my… Read More »
I’ve been thinking about the difference between a service top and a service sub. I thought they were kind of opposite–now I think they’re kind of the same, just with a different attitude. Yes, in some ways, I’m a service sub. I want to help, be petted, and be told I’m a good pumpkin. I… Read More »
Hello, reader. How are you? I’ve been thinking about shame. What is shame, and why do we feel it? Is it ever helpful? I see people feeling shame who don’t need it. The shame drains their energy like a hole in a bucket. Then the people who do great wrongs are not feeling shame. Hmm–why… Read More »
“Please go into my cartoon bag and put jelly bellies in my skull,” I said to Ming. Then I laughed and laughed, as that was a ridiculous sentence. I had never said that sentence before, and I love it. Do you like novel sentences? I imagined my bare skull Hamlet-style. The jelly bellies were the… Read More »
Hey, reader. How are you doing? I’ve been stressed sometimes and at the edge of my capacity. Last night I was toast but needed to attend house meeting. I love touch as a way to relax, and Ming is so helpful. Sometimes other friends are open to touch also, and I love to diversify. So… Read More »
Hello, reader. How’s tricks? I want to tell you how I make dal. Some people like it, so my elucidation could be a service to the world. orange solstice meal I cooked a meal with my housemate for our community. It was an orange meal for summer solstice. Wow, what a tasty time. The menu… Read More »