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don’t underestimate Ming

Don’t underestimate Ming.  Don’t misunderstand this brilliant, caring person.  Just because Ming is humble and disabled, please don’t ignore their generous helpfulness.  Don’t let self-aggrandizing, big ego people throw off your sense of what great is. Quiet, calm caring is the real greatness in this world, supporting others and making a better world.  If you… Read More »

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letter to a young poet

This is a letter to a young poet.  They might not identify as a poet the way people who make art might not identify as artists.  The label sounds like a big deal. But I know a little about who they are and feel qualified to call them poet, artist, visionary, genius, activist, radical, witch. … Read More »

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fat transqueer disabled dance

Fat transqueer disabled dance is a guest post by Ming.  Photos by Ming! *** The dance happened on the same day as a national political protest occurred, Hands Off. We at the Fat TransQueer Disabled Ecstatic Dance were creating and celebrating the world that the protesters were dreaming for. Here is now. Why not? Before… Read More »

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dance in the revolution

Yesterday we held the first fat transqueer disabled dance.  It was a beautiful day for unconditional love.  All bodies are valid bodies, and I’m compelled to co-create a space where all bodies belong.  I’m happy to dance in the revolution. When I scheduled the fat transqueer disabled dance, I didn’t know there was a huge… Read More »

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walking on eggshells

Long ago when I was married to my ex-husband, he started making waves in his family of origin after decades of being controlled and abused.  He was the youngest child and the only boy of all the cousins.  As a child he had a remarkable speech delay and other developmental differences.  As a young adult… Read More »

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how Eugene changes me

Hello, reader.  How are you doing?  I love Eugene.  What a green place to live–I’ve decided I really like it and want to stay a while with Ming.  This is our home for now.  I love how Eugene changes me. Did I already tell you about the freedom I feel here to experience the full… Read More »

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rice pudding

“Why did you make rice pudding?” my dear friend asked. They ask the best questions.  They were heading to the land, and I thought I could make some gluten-free, vegan rice pudding they could bring with them for the Forestry Campers already there. “Well, I had this rice free from the pantry,” I said.  “And… Read More »

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support

Hello, reader.  How are you doing?  I’m providing the link to financially support the family of my activist friend who recently died.  In case you would like to share or contribute, the link is here. https://www.gofundme.com/f/candice-king-memorial-support-fund Thank you for holding them in your heart, if only for a moment. The world is full of suffering,… Read More »

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The Wanderground

Hello, reader–how are you doing?  You know how you read some books when you were young that shook your world and changed you forever?  For me The Wanderground by Sally Miller Gearhart was one of those books. I read this speculative fiction when I was a teenager–like most of what I read at the time,… Read More »

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RIP Candice Yemaya

Hello, reader.  How are you doing?  Local activist Candice Yemaya has passed over to the other side.  I was crying yesterday when I found out, shocked.  Rest in peace as we continue your vital community organizing work. I first met Candice in my backyard when Ming and I lived at Walnut Street Co-op.  There was… Read More »