Hello, esteemed reader. It’s been a lil bit since I gratitude journaled here. But Ming and I have an attitude of gratitude–we gratitude journal together out loud every day, sometimes twice a day, often while we’re taking a walk. Here we go! fall I’m grateful for fall weather, being able to go outside whenever I… Read More »
Ming is so good at caring for me. Best spouse ever! He listens, reads all my writing, enjoys my art. I love how he cleans the kitchen at night so I can cook delicious foods all day. Zero guilt tripping, zero passive aggressive fuckery. I’ve definitely been partnered with people who were manipulative and had… Read More »
Here are some ways to say no to abuse. Please feel free to use this language to explain a situation, break up, or ask for space. no I realize this relationship has become a way for me to distract myself from what I was put on Earth to do. That’s not appropriate. You’re not allowed… Read More »
Today I’m getting interviewed at 10 pacific by David Rovics. Please consider listening. His youtube is a good place to catch it. https://www.youtube.com/user/drovics Here’s my gratitude list today, joy sprinkled your way. What’s on your gratitude list? yay I’m so glad my finger got better, where the cactus microspines got into it. It’s healed. I… Read More »
Anti-gratitude list for today–thank you for hearing me. Back to our regularly scheduled positivity tomorrow. Other people made choices that affect me a lot, without consulting me. Blame / shame that doesn’t even make sense. Like doctors blaming me for health issues without knowing anything about my life. Assumptions they make leading to me being… Read More »
“What do you like best about being a hippie?” I asked Ming. I love hippies. “I’m not a hippie!” he said. “Look in the mirror!” I said. “You have the hairdo! What’s your favorite thing? My favorite thing is the fresh sauerkraut.” “Food culture,” Ming said. “Like Sandor Katz?” I asked. “Food culture.” Oh, he… Read More »
ball options Start carrying around a bike pump with ball needle to pump up all these flat balls we find in our neighborhood. Take all the balls home, pump them up, and re-release them in the wild as we walk. Take all the balls home, pump them up, and give them to kids I know… Read More »
“Will you be my valentine?” I asked Ming. “Will you be my Thanksgiving?” he asked me. “Yeah! I would be good at that!” I said. “Every day!” Turkeys, feasts, fake pilgrims, buckle hats, hand-turkeys, my mom, stuffing, cliche arguments, dressing up fake, cranberry sauce, death, graveyard, flower, grave placard, Alfie’s fish & chips, my dad,… Read More »