Hello, reader. How are you doing? Recently I sat down with Ming at an Indian food restaurant in Junction City, and we talked about how to plan. I’m a big time planner–might be a Virgo thing? Oh no, it’s probably my flavor of autism. I can see a long way down the chain of cause… Read More »
Hello, reader. How are you doing? Are you a monogamous person? I see content on a social media website about polyamory. People tell their dramatic relationship story for feedback. It can stimulate a lot of thought, to ponder what I would do and read the comments. Usually I’m silent, but this morning I read someone’s… Read More »
Howdy, reader. How are you doing? Do you know what in love means? I was talking to my friend; I thought she never fell in love with her boyfriend, but he’s moving in with her soon. Yes, I knew she loved him, but I never heard about an actual falling in love episode. Not to… Read More »
Hello, reader. How are you doing? I’m thinking how friends can nurture one another. I need support and help, but it’s hard to figure out what to ask for. Today when I asked Spirit what I most need, Spirit said I need to be nurtured. Yes, that’s true. I miss my mom. Ming is very… Read More »
Hello, reader. How are you doing? I’d like to announce my new zine, Jealousy Is a Stressor. I made it a few weeks ago and forgot to tell you about it. Bound with thread, cute, and text heavy. I’m open to trades. Jealousy Is a Stressor is a mini-zine. It reminds me of the How… Read More »
Hey, reader–what’s news? My good friend and I talked about the difference between codependence and interdependence. I loved thinking together about how to build interdependence. Love is a skill we can strengthen, though I don’t hear people talking about that much. Some of the self-help, therapy-type healing content I see around, like on instagram, includes… Read More »
Hello, reader. How are you doing? I made an art chart. It’s about anger. I saw an anger chart online for sale, but for kids. I decided to create my own handmade version for adults or teenagers. I like how there’s a number system, a way to gauge the amount of anger, and then things… Read More »
Hello, how are you doing? I was thinking about my problem with relationship anarchy and wanted to explain. You’d think I would like it. I love relationships, and I’m an anarchist. But no–I am not a relationship anarchist. I’ve had friends who do relationship anarchy, and I read a manifesto some years ago. freedom Freedom… Read More »
Hello, how are you doing? I attended a workshop about consensus. It was put on by the intentional community Snake Village and gave me delicious food for thought. Still digesting it. what it is Consensus is a decision making style that anarchists such as myself are supposed to do or at least have a good… Read More »
I’m done being called too much by many people, feeling shame, and tiptoeing around that. Trying to predict what will overwhelm others so I can contort myself into not doing it is bullshit. Lately I’m trying not to accept the shame. My way of reframing the situation is like: I’m not too much–you’re not enough.… Read More »