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MC Candy Foot

breakfast ingredients “You want a grackle for breakfast?” I asked Ming.  A grackle was vocalizing in the courtyard. “Yeah!” he said. “Oh, honey.  You don’t eat birds.  The only animals you eat are sea creatures.” “Well, that’s good because they both start with a c.” “Uh–grackle doesn’t start with a c.  It starts with a… Read More »

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mandated reporting

Hello, reader.  How are you doing?  I want to tell you that I’ve been harmed by mandated reporting.  It’s supposedly helpful to make us all safer.  But it’s more of a “cover your ass” so no one gets sued.  And it’s a way to disempower people who are have been kicked around enough already.  I… Read More »

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fiber jokes

Hello, reader.  How are you doing?  Fiber jokes can be a safe way to get out excess craft energy and family pain.  Thank you to Ming for keeping it real about fiber.  My darling is always ready to joke with me. crochet “I’m going to wear the blue knitted hat,” Ming said. “Oh my god,”… Read More »

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RIP Candice Yemaya

Hello, reader.  How are you doing?  Local activist Candice Yemaya has passed over to the other side.  I was crying yesterday when I found out, shocked.  Rest in peace as we continue your vital community organizing work. I first met Candice in my backyard when Ming and I lived at Walnut Street Co-op.  There was… Read More »

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disability is enforced poverty

Hello, reader.  How are you doing?  I’ve been thinking how disability is enforced poverty.  It’s brutal, and I hate it.  I have SSDI and food stamps, and I’m asked to make do on very little. But also, there are great parts.  Disability is a great builder of compassion.  I love disabled people, and I’m happy… Read More »

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the beehive collective

Yesterday an important radical art collective The Beehive Collective came to town to share art with us and storytelling.  I’m so happy I was able to get my disabled ass there with Ming’s help.  I couldn’t stay for the whole time. But it’s the next morning, and I’m still glowing with joy to have met… Read More »

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this mountain

“Do you think this mountain is our destiny?” I asked Ming. “No, I think bringing the energy of this mountain wherever we go is our destiny,” Ming said. I had pulled tarot cards to ask a few questions.  When I asked Spirit if Ming and I had a destiny on this mountain, I got funny… Read More »

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my worth is not determined by my ability to make money

Hello, reader.  How are you doing?  Ming and I made statements about disability for a local church.  I thought you might enjoy them.  Ming’s is brief but 100% important ideas.  I like when he says, “My worth is not determined by my ability to make money.”  Being disabled allows him to do mutual aid work… Read More »

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activist relationships

Hello, reader.  How are you?  Are you curious about activist relationships?  I define activist as anyone who has a vision for a better world and works toward it. ask Ming “How would you define activist?” I asked Ming. “Motivated by a cause,” said Ming.  “Someone who takes action, for a cause?  I dunno–seems like there… Read More »

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natural gas

“Any stove that’s electric is not really a stove–it’s a glorified hot plate,” I said, pondering natural gas.  “There–I said it.  Fire is totally different for cooking, than a ridiculously hot coil of metal.  Sorry.  Cooking feels so different with a flame.” Ming and I were lying in bed.  It was early in the morning,… Read More »