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preview final message

Hey, reader. How are you doing? Last post I was talking about that internal memo googledoc of what I want done with my stuff when I die. And now I want to write the statement to be released at the time of my death as a final message. Yes! But why wait? I intend to… Read More »

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man in the sky

Hello, reader. How are you doing? My favorite song lately is Man In the Sky. I thought you should hear it, if you haven’t already. It’s by my dreamy missing / deceased pretend girlfriend Connie Converse. It’s an old-timey song from before I was born. I like it because it’s about falling in love with… Read More »

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why I cuddle bunny

Hello, reader. How are you doing? Do you ever wonder why I cuddle Bunny? Let’s ponder that for a moment. climate change camp out conference Recently Ming and I went upstairs to Washington. Yes, that’s the state north of Oregon where we live these days. We went to a climate change camp out conference. Only… Read More »

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what I’ve learned at the radical faerie sanctuary

Hello, reader.  How you doing?  I’ve looked for community for a long time.  So many forms I’ve found.  Finally I can be my whole self somewhere: queer trans witches are wanted.  Disabled, crazy, and fat people are ok–almost the norm.  So I keep showing up with Ming, responsible and caring about myself, other people, the… Read More »

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proverbs

Hello, reader.  How are you doing?  There’s a Bible verse I like–it’s in Proverbs.  I remember it from when I was a kid.  Recently I read it because a community member where Ming and I live has the Proverbs verse as her email sig file. “I really like this Bible verse,” I told Ming and… Read More »

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what ritual is for

“Will you tell me your thoughts about what ritual is for?” I asked my dear one. We were on a road trip, driving south through redwood forest in Northern California.  Me, Ming, my dear one, and Bunny–just the four of us, talking about death. “What kind of gathering do you want when you die?” my… Read More »

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how to do anything

Hello, reader.  How are you doing?  I want to tell you how to do anything.  Yes, I can do anything.  Or at least I can do something…! I thought you should know how to do anything as well.  I’ll tell you stepwise. gather information Yes, it’s like preparing the soil.  What do you need to… Read More »

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people on the other side

People on the other side can be helpful in ways that living people cannot.  People on the other side are available to support us, and their love is an energy that flows to us as much as we want.  One of the main ways I sustain my mental health is by asking my mom, her… Read More »

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how would God spend $20?

Hello, reader.  How are you doing?  I put a twenty dollar bill on my altar in front of an image of my dearest deity impulsively.  It seemed to belong.  Then I left it there for a month maybe.  Then last night Ming helped me clean my altar, and it felt right to remove some items. … Read More »

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starlight back

Hello, reader–how are you doing?  I believe in Land Back.  It’s one of the big ideas of my life these days, so I made this list-art about it.  The art includes an idea I’ve been thinking about a lot lately, which is Starlight Back. healing What do you need to heal?  I need clean water,… Read More »