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autistic freakout

‘ Hello, reader.  How are you doing?  I had an autistic freakout this morning. “I’m sorry you’re having a rough day,” my friend texted me, when I mentioned the autistic freakout. It’s nice to have an old friend’s sympathy.  He had possibly regained the dignity he lost during a pinball tournament the night before. “I… Read More »

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what magic is

“How would you explain what magic is?” I asked Ming. We were driving home from the coast.  What a good day we had.  First we went to the library, where I wrote and cleared some ideas out of my head that had coalesced during the drive. Then we went for a walk.  I was skeptical… Read More »

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if I wasn’t here

“What would you be doing, if I wasn’t here?” I asked Ming. “I’d probably be sleeping,” Ming said. “No, I don’t mean right this minute,” I said.  “I mean in general.” I was driving us home–Ming got really sleepy as we were leaving Dorris Ranch.  At Dorris Ranch we sat in a hazelnut orchard eating… Read More »

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pneumonia

content warning: pneumonia topic, hospital mention, death possibility “You know how you’re having a baby, and it takes a while.  So you’re looking for all different positions to try,” I said to Ming. Ming has pneumonia.  Hopefully you have never had it, reader.  If you have, you might know how it’s really hard to sleep. … Read More »

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this mountain

“Do you think this mountain is our destiny?” I asked Ming. “No, I think bringing the energy of this mountain wherever we go is our destiny,” Ming said. I had pulled tarot cards to ask a few questions.  When I asked Spirit if Ming and I had a destiny on this mountain, I got funny… Read More »

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Olympia’s well

Hello, reader.  How are you doing?  Ming and I visited the artesian well in Olympia, Washington during our recent trip north to Portland and Seattle.  I love Olympia’s well and sent a picture to my friend.  They asked to hear more, so I write this post for my friend and for everyone. I first visited… Read More »

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what I learned in Seattle

Hello, reader.  How are you doing today?  Are you snug in your home?  Ming and I are traveling.  I want to tell you what I learned in Seattle. travel Travel is letting in a lot of info.  I open the gate–nature, culture, people, freewayscapes, trying to eat well on the road, and all sorts of… Read More »

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what really happened on our trip

Hello, reader.  How are you?  Ming and I were house sitting recently for ten days at the coast.  Friends have asked, “How was it?”  This is what really happened on our trip. what really happened on our trip I slept eight hours almost every night of our trip.  Being just me and Ming, my ambient… Read More »

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genderfucking

Hello, reader.  How are you?  What do you think is beautiful?  Is fitting into a gender box important to your life and success?  I like genderfucking.  That’s when you play with gender intentionally and subversively.  We can do better than restrictive roles. A motivation for genderfucking is cultural change.  I like modeling that another way… Read More »

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small craft advisory

“Hey, it’s supposed to rain all day!  There’s a small craft advisory!” I told Ming.  “It’s supposed to rain till 7!” We are house sitting on the coast for a Quaker we previously didn’t know.  We’re caring for her gardens. It’s so quiet and amazing here.  I slept great–I love it. But I’m afraid Ming… Read More »