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how to mosh

Hey, reader!  Please note: This post “how to mosh” is written by someone who has never moshed.   “Hey, honey,” I said to Ming.  “I want to tell you this fantasy I’m having.  I wanna get a vest–one of those vests you wear in the lake, not to drown.  What do you call those things?” Ming… Read More »

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how to initiate touch

Gmorning, reader.  How are you doing?  I’ve been thinking about how to initiate touch. Touch is a big deal.  We’re mammals– touch is central to our socializing.  Can I give you a hug? get weird But people get weird about touch because of sex, feelings, boundaries, poor communication about intentions.  Then it can feel complicated… Read More »

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being with

Hello, how are you doing?  I’ve been thinking about “being with.”  Ming and I do a lot of care for each other, including being with. game I was playing a game with friends, my second RPG ever, over zoom.  I was a toad who had been given psychedelics by a kind witch.  We were on… Read More »

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fae food

Hello, reader–how are you doing?  What have you been thinking about lately?  I’ve been thinking about relationships, how touch functions in my life, and fae food. Do you have the relationships you need to feel strong and do your life’s work?  I am doing quite well on relationships.  I have Ming, who is almost always… Read More »

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don’t touch me wrong

Hey, guess what today is. You have three guesses. Nope, not egg day. Not Thanksgiving, though every day is good for thanksgiving. No, not International Popsicle Day, probably. I didn’t look that up. Today is the anniversary of the first nuclear bomb test, Trinity Day. In the desert, where my peeps are from, in New… Read More »