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nurturing energy

Hello, reader.  How are you?  What’s on your mind?  I was thinking about nurturing energy. I used to wonder why I’m so damn nurturing.  Yes, big tit energy, every day.  I’ve extended a ton of care and am quick to invest in the well-being of others.  Any ideas? kid theory One idea I had before… Read More »

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speaking at the Friends meeting

Hello–how are you doing?   Speaking at the Friends meeting is something I never thought I would do.  We’ve been going since November.  God gave me a message, and I didn’t feel much choice but to speak it.  The message was something like this. message You know at the doctor, there can be a pain scale. … Read More »

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realistic

Being real and realistic about who I am and what I want is some of the hardest work I do every day. I like to take it another layer.  It’s fun to think I found the real truth, then find a deeper truth. how I get more realistic It’s mostly about getting more and more… Read More »

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divest

Hello, how are you doing?  I’ve been thinking about breaking up.  My good friend is about to break up with a partner.  It’s been a long time coming.  I did that divorce ritual with my housemate a couple weeks ago, when she quit her job.  Breaking up is a weird extreme thing to do.  I… Read More »

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saying I love you to men

Hello, how are you doing?  I had a realization yesterday.  It was that saying I love you to men is almost always a bad idea. Wow, I thought if I felt love or was doing love, I was supposed to say it.  Clarity is usually an important thing, right?  Wrong!  Saying I love you to… Read More »

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throat chakra

Hello, how are you doing?  I was having some trouble with my throat chakra.  It can feel stuffed up. What words did I need to say, that I swallowed to keep fake peace for my survival?  When did I clam up, to protect myself or someone else?  What truths did I pretend did not exist,… Read More »

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the most scary thing about love

Hello, how are you doing?  I’ve been thinking about what’s the most scary thing about love. trust This came up for me because I was talking to my new housemate the other day.  He was in the kitchen, and I was in the dining room.  We were sorting some foods, and when he mentioned a… Read More »

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how to make decisions about healthcare for sick pets

Hello, how are you doing?  I’ve been thinking about how to make decisions about healthcare for sick pets.  An acquaintance on social media had a sick cat and was asking. It’s an important question, and we figure these things out on our own, too often.  Folks responded with different opinions. social media Social media gets… Read More »

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what happened

Hello, how you doing?  I’m ready to write about what happened.  I mean what happened when Ming and I tried to move in June and failed, which launched our four and a half months of homelessness. This tale is a bit long, so please make some tea or what have you and settle in for… Read More »

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danger

Hello, how are you doing?  I asked Ming to take my picture with this horrific Halloween sculpture.  Not sure why I asked for that!  But I’m glad Ming did that for me, because seeing the picture makes me think about my relationship with danger. Does it creep you out?  If you know me well, maybe… Read More »