Hello, reader. How are you? What do you think is beautiful? Is fitting into a gender box important to your life and success? I like genderfucking. That’s when you play with gender intentionally and subversively. We can do better than restrictive roles. A motivation for genderfucking is cultural change. I like modeling that another way… Read More »
Hello, Ming and I are in California. We visited my aunt on her back porch. It was lovely. We hugged, drank tea, and enjoyed conversation. I was in a more energetic mood than usual, which was nice. Maybe I said slightly different things. I asked if my aunt would cut our hair. She said yes,… Read More »
I was lying in bed Tuesday, crying and missing my mama. Grief attack–suddenly things came into focus. I needed her, and she wasn’t there. A notebook was on the bed, and I started making a list of what I lost when I lost her. I type it here for you. stabilizing force–her love helped me… Read More »