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drugs in cheese

“What kept the Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles together?” Ming asked our good friend.  I think it’s Splinter, but also drugs in cheese. We were at temple for Shabbat service, talking quietly as folx in kippot entered the room. “Wasn’t it a rat?  Splinter,” our friend replied. “Yeah, that’s what I said,” Ming replied.  I was… Read More »

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terfs

Hello, reader.  How are you?  Are you friends with any TERFs?  TERFs are trans-exclusionary radical feminists.  That’s the acronym. In my experience they’re old lesbians who are cranky about gender.  They might call transwomen “a man in a dress.”  They feel that woman-ness is an exclusive club they suffered to be in, so they get… Read More »

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age in Disabled Resilience Permaculture

Have you ever noticed how certain people are attracted to permaculture movements, and then certain people leave?  Why do they leave?  Ming and I have been thinking a lot about disability and age in Disabled Resilience Permaculture.  And in community. crazy I was told by a friend that mentally ill people destroy communities.  Wow, yuck. … Read More »

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getting old

“Is that too great a burden to bury?” I asked Ming.  Then I laughed and laughed.  Getting old is wild. On Saturday, a friend I hadn’t seen in more than a year asked, “Why is your hair turning gray?”  I love being 44, who I am, my age, and all I’ve been through, to get… Read More »