“Is it ok if I grab your breasts in public?” I asked Ming. “Yes,” he said. We were sitting on a bench in our community near the main garden. I was behind Ming, my tummy on his back, spooning him, holding onto his chest with my hands. My thighs gripped his butt. “It’s ok because… Read More »
Hello, reader. How’s your soul? My last blog post about my gender these days as well as disability, do you remember it? There was a part where I was talking about how my queer trans spirituality keeps me safe and keeps me going. This post is addressing the friend I went on that life changing… Read More »
Hey, reader. How are you doing? How’s your gender these days? Do you feel empowered to be who you are, as more people are out as trans? I do! I feel binary gender break down a bit more, and I need that. Yes, there is danger from conservative people, and it hurts to see queers… Read More »
Hello, reader. How’ve you been? Do you need much entertainment? I like reading memes on instagram and harvesting them to share with a meme chat I’m on. Otherwise, I don’t see shows or videos much. But I watch videos on YouTube sometimes, often videos that help me learn something. Here are some favorite videos lately.… Read More »
Hello, reader. How are you doing? Last time I pulled tarot cards, I asked Spirit what Ming and I need. My relationship with Ming is the most important relationship in my life. So I pull cards asking how I can be kind to him and help him get what he needs. Most recently I asked… Read More »
Hello, reader. How are you doing? When I was getting close to a then-girlfriend a couple years ago, she brought up the idea of relationship smorgasbord. We could conceive of our relationship as many delicious dishes laid out before us, and we get to choose what we want. Correct! We don’t need to have close… Read More »
Hello, reader. How are you doing? There was a protest here in Eugene for homelessness justice. Lately a lot of local unhoused people are getting serious inappropriate consequences from the police. The sweeps are brutal. It’s heartbreaking. I was thinking about signs I can make. Ming and I brainstormed together. ideas list Housing Is a… Read More »
It’s beautiful, and it’s how I want to live, but it’s scary to be vulnerable to other people. My heart’s open so wide. I need to be vulnerable because that’s part of love and why I’m on earth. But afterward, I’m insecure. Was that ok? Did it really happen? Did it matter to the other… Read More »
Hello, reader. How are you doing? I am adjusting to home after a transformative trip I took with my friend. When I got home, I had a big My Life Is All Wrong attack. It wasn’t PMS time, the classic My Life Is All Wrong time. I was just shaken up. The freedom I felt… Read More »
Hello, reader. How are you doing? The other day when I was on that road trip with my good friend, we talked about how jewelry works. Of course it could just be pretty or show some sparkle. It could express class, values, interests, or aesthetic. But my main thought about how jewelry works concerns energy.… Read More »