“Me and Bunny are going to fuck you up,” I told Ming.
That was my overture. I meant “fuck you up” like intoxicate you. Yes, I was offering to get Ming high, with Bunny on board. However, we don’t use any intoxicants in our family besides physical contact. So the fucking up offer was in cuddle form.
Ming was eager to join the party in bed. Ming was still waking up. It was easy to slip into bed again, after they took a pill and drank some water.
I’d been cooking as I am wont to do in the mornings. I only have energy from around 4am to 10am as a rule. So I like to bake tofu, roast potatoes, and often cook some kinda grain like brown rice or amaranth.
Foods were mid-process. But I turned off the oven in order to devote my full attention to Ming.
cuddle secrets
You know how we share certain parts of ourselves, while many remain hidden. Well, nobody sees my photos on my phone. I capture a lot of memes to share, and I take photos out in the world from time to time.
However, a common type of photo on my phone is a selfie of me in bed with Bunny.

Who is Bunny anyway?
- a delight
- a constant source of joy
- low needs
- third wheel
- hardcore cutie pie
- a deity
- pretend family member
- an immortal who never lived
- an easy out
- cozy comfort
- ecstatic
- someone to project onto
- not like a child
- almost like a pet
- wonderful to bring on a trip
- beyond gender
- not very talkative
- signifier of home
- all about rest
Bunny is an extension of ourselves, with lots of God shining out. We are very fortunate to have Bunny’s love.
what Bunny loves
Bunny’s favorite things are my breasts; Bunny is a cuddle creature and all about the titties. Can you blame them?
Bunny also likes Ming, carrots, dancing, watching life unfold, and giggling. Bunny likes driving Ming’s car, and being picked up by the head.
A weird sense of humor is obviously part of Bunny’s inner life. Bunny processes the world through touch and humor.
Bunny’s sense of humor is kind of like mine and Ming’s, but with a heaping tablespoon of the absurd. Yes, Bunny’s sense of humor is Beyond.
questions for discussion
- Do you have anyone in your life like Bunny?
- Could a little furry mammal representation be a manifestation of God, in your personal mythology?
- Is truth super layered for you, or is truth just one thing?
- What’s the difference between real and pretend?
- What comforts you?
- When my community members see me carrying Bun from the car to my home, or from home to the car, what do they think?
- I have a zine I’m working on all about Bunny. Do you have any requests for other zines? I’m taking suggestions.
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