Hello, reader. How are you doing? Do you like disabled comedy? I hear comedy about race and fatness. But disabled comedy is my new favorite. I recently heard Tina Friml for the first time. The first performance I heard, I cried through the whole thing. Why did I cry? I found it moving; I relate… Read More »
“What would you be doing, if I wasn’t here?” I asked Ming. “I’d probably be sleeping,” Ming said. “No, I don’t mean right this minute,” I said. “I mean in general.” I was driving us home–Ming got really sleepy as we were leaving Dorris Ranch. At Dorris Ranch we sat in a hazelnut orchard eating… Read More »
Hello, reader. How are you doing? I’m thinking how friends can nurture one another. I need support and help, but it’s hard to figure out what to ask for. Today when I asked Spirit what I most need, Spirit said I need to be nurtured. Yes, that’s true. I miss my mom. Ming is very… Read More »
Hello, reader. How are you doing? I’ve been thinking about fatness, power, and dating for decades. Yes, since I was a kid– for about 40 years. A close friend who’s younger than me is learning about it more newly. That’s why I’m writing this post. privilege in dating Do you have thin privilege? Pretty privilege?… Read More »
Hello, reader. How are you doing? I’d like to announce my new zine, Jealousy Is a Stressor. I made it a few weeks ago and forgot to tell you about it. Bound with thread, cute, and text heavy. I’m open to trades. Jealousy Is a Stressor is a mini-zine. It reminds me of the How… Read More »
Hello, reader. How are you doing? I want to share with you some words to use instead of crazy. My chosen family member friend I talk to every day was polo-ing me. Marco Polo is our favorite app to communicate with. Sure we txt like regular modern human beings. But Marco Polo is an app… Read More »
Hello, reader. How are you doing? Ming and I have been thinking about first aid kits. Ming is a street medic and former nurse. He’s also worked safety for events like breast cancer and AIDS rides. Ming knows a thing or two about health, safety, and first aid kits materials. Ming loves materials. The tarot… Read More »
“Is it ok if I grab your breasts in public?” I asked Ming. “Yes,” he said. We were sitting on a bench in our community near the main garden. I was behind Ming, my tummy on his back, spooning him, holding onto his chest with my hands. My thighs gripped his butt. “It’s ok because… Read More »
Hello, reader. How’s your soul? My last blog post about my gender these days as well as disability, do you remember it? There was a part where I was talking about how my queer trans spirituality keeps me safe and keeps me going. This post is addressing the friend I went on that life changing… Read More »
Hey, reader. How are you doing? How’s your gender these days? Do you feel empowered to be who you are, as more people are out as trans? I do! I feel binary gender break down a bit more, and I need that. Yes, there is danger from conservative people, and it hurts to see queers… Read More »